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有人惹你生气了?深呼一口气,学学高情商回答吧!
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文章转载自 21英语微商城 21世纪英文报
有人把你激怒了,该怎么应对?
千万不要打回去……
这些智慧的表达方式可以帮到你
(难道这就是“高情商”?)
Using the power of words
Our language is a powerful tool. But, instead of criticizing people, it pays to use our words wisely. These tips can help:
我们的语言是一个强大的工具。但是,与其用它批评或嘲讽别人,不如更聪明地使用我们的语言。看看下面的建议吧:
For example, if someone got upset with you, what would you say back? These remarks might work: “I know you’re upset, but calm down and we’ll talk.” “You’re pushing all my buttons. I take offence at (对......生气) some of your language.” “We’re both adults here. Let’s not act crazy toward each other.”
举个例子:如果有人冲你发火,你会怎么回应他?这句话可能有用:“我知道你很生气,但不如冷静一下,我们谈谈怎么样?”、“你让我生气了,我对你的一些表达不太满意。”、“我们都是成年人了,不如冷静一点处理问题。”
The point is that you want to speak up for yourself. But you don’t want to ignite an explosion (激起怒火). State your feelings in a mature way. Intelligent language steers (引导) us toward good outcomes.
重点是你想表达自己的想法,但并不想激怒对方,那不如用更成熟的语句表达你的感受。聪明的语言表让我们的生活更美好。